Pangalawang mahalagang karakter ng isang maayos na boyfriend/girlfriend ay UNDERSTANDING, or OPEN-MINDEDNESS...BROAD-MINDEDNESS.
Dapat hindi narrow-minded, dapat hindi rin sarado ang isip. Mahirap kasama lagi ang isang tao (at yan ang situation ng lovers, madalas kasama) na ang paniwala niya ay yung iniisip niya lang ang tama...ang pananaw lang niya ang tama. Unang-una, wala naman kasing tao na perfect. Ang karunungan ng bawat isa ay laging kapos.
Maganda sa isang partner ang nakikipag-usap at nakikinig. There can only be understanding if there is an open two-way communication and an open mind.
So check if your potential BF/GF is understanding, open-minded, broad-minded. Ang sarap kasama ng ganyan.
It takes some time to get to know if a person is really understanding. So don't rush into a relationship if you have just freshly been acquainted with someone. Remember HASTE MAKES WASTE. Nasasayang ang maraming bagay, lalo ang relationship, kapag minamadali. Ang bubot na prutas, kapag pinitas, mapait, hindi makain, natatapon lang.
May you find someone who is honest and understanding...of course IN DUE TIME!
Be blessed,
Kuya Tony
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Paano Ba Pumili ng Maayos na Boyfriend/Girlfriend (Part 1)
Malawak na paksa itong pagkakaroon ng maayos na boyfriend o girlfriend. Bukod pa sa lawak nito, ang dami ring iba't ibang pagtanaw at opinyon sa isyung ito. Kaya ang aking isi-share ay isa lang sa maraming opinyon na puede mong isaalang-alang.
For me, character is very important. Number 1 na sa character ang honesty. Parang kanta ni Billy Joel na Honesty... "honesty is hardly ever heard, but mostly what I need from you".
If a would-be lover is honest, that is already a big mountain off your shoulder. Ang isang dishonest person kasi, puedeng magsinungaling sa tunay na status nya sa relationships nya, sabi niya ikaw lang...yun pala parang Friendster, "It's Complicated!" Mayroon palang nauna at kasabay ka sa harem ng lovers nya. O di kaya ay may sabit, may asawa na, may anak pa.
Relationships thrive on trust. E kung hindi honest ang partner mo, how can you give full trust. Therefore, your relationship will not thrive... it's going to be a big burden instead of being a great blessing.
Dapat ang relationships, blessing yan sa atin. In other words, nabi-build up ka, nami-meet ang needs mo. Dapat give-and-take, pareho kayong lumalago socially, emotionally, and in other areas. That way, you complement each other. KAYA NGA ANG TAWAG AY PARTNERSHIP!
Later on in life, this same honesty will keep you and your partner from getting dishonest gains...yung pera o resources na galing sa pangungupit, o pandaraya, o panlalamang sa kapwa. Surely you don't like to enjoy things acquired this way. Maraming temptations na ganyan, sa school, sa office, sa business.
It's better to see honesty already deeply ingrained in the system of your partner, than to wonder if he/she can change from being dishonest to honest whey you find out dishonest practices in him/her.
More on next blog.
Kuya Tony
For me, character is very important. Number 1 na sa character ang honesty. Parang kanta ni Billy Joel na Honesty... "honesty is hardly ever heard, but mostly what I need from you".
If a would-be lover is honest, that is already a big mountain off your shoulder. Ang isang dishonest person kasi, puedeng magsinungaling sa tunay na status nya sa relationships nya, sabi niya ikaw lang...yun pala parang Friendster, "It's Complicated!" Mayroon palang nauna at kasabay ka sa harem ng lovers nya. O di kaya ay may sabit, may asawa na, may anak pa.
Relationships thrive on trust. E kung hindi honest ang partner mo, how can you give full trust. Therefore, your relationship will not thrive... it's going to be a big burden instead of being a great blessing.
Dapat ang relationships, blessing yan sa atin. In other words, nabi-build up ka, nami-meet ang needs mo. Dapat give-and-take, pareho kayong lumalago socially, emotionally, and in other areas. That way, you complement each other. KAYA NGA ANG TAWAG AY PARTNERSHIP!
Later on in life, this same honesty will keep you and your partner from getting dishonest gains...yung pera o resources na galing sa pangungupit, o pandaraya, o panlalamang sa kapwa. Surely you don't like to enjoy things acquired this way. Maraming temptations na ganyan, sa school, sa office, sa business.
It's better to see honesty already deeply ingrained in the system of your partner, than to wonder if he/she can change from being dishonest to honest whey you find out dishonest practices in him/her.
More on next blog.
Kuya Tony
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