Pangalawang mahalagang karakter ng isang maayos na boyfriend/girlfriend ay UNDERSTANDING, or OPEN-MINDEDNESS...BROAD-MINDEDNESS.
Dapat hindi narrow-minded, dapat hindi rin sarado ang isip. Mahirap kasama lagi ang isang tao (at yan ang situation ng lovers, madalas kasama) na ang paniwala niya ay yung iniisip niya lang ang tama...ang pananaw lang niya ang tama. Unang-una, wala naman kasing tao na perfect. Ang karunungan ng bawat isa ay laging kapos.
Maganda sa isang partner ang nakikipag-usap at nakikinig. There can only be understanding if there is an open two-way communication and an open mind.
So check if your potential BF/GF is understanding, open-minded, broad-minded. Ang sarap kasama ng ganyan.
It takes some time to get to know if a person is really understanding. So don't rush into a relationship if you have just freshly been acquainted with someone. Remember HASTE MAKES WASTE. Nasasayang ang maraming bagay, lalo ang relationship, kapag minamadali. Ang bubot na prutas, kapag pinitas, mapait, hindi makain, natatapon lang.
May you find someone who is honest and understanding...of course IN DUE TIME!
Be blessed,
Kuya Tony
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